When most people think about twin flames, they think of highly fulfilling relationships with an out of this world connection. This sounds highly appealing and something everyone would desire. However, there are also disadvantages to having a twin flame. These are shared below.
Cannot Quit
No matter how badly you want away from a twin flame, it is impossible to get away from, even when we feel it is time to let go. Until the universe decides to break the twin flame, a magnetic force reels us back into the relationship.
Obsessed
Even those who had an obsessive attitude before a twin flame will feel things taken to an extreme. Everything will take a backseat to the twin flame, even those things that may be a problem like drugs, alcohol, food, or texting will start losing attention.
Self-Fighting
There is often internal conflict with a twin flame because our heart and mind are battling things out. At times, we may feel as if we want nothing to do with our twin flame and the next moment may feel we cannot be away from them.
Forget About Normal Relationships
A twin flame relationship will never resemble anyone else’s in the least, at least not until people evolve much further.
Terrible Lows
The twin flame relationship is focused on getting rid of the ego in both people at the same time which means lows can be extreme in nature. It can easily go from a high one minute to a deep, dark low the next. These may disappear if at least one twin flame is doing their inner work.
Spirituality
The spirituality that comes with a twin flame is unavoidable. The events and signs from being with a twin flame will make you believe in some higher power. Even the preprogrammed religious beliefs of what is right and wrong will likely become unimportant or irrelevant in light of the new awakening.
Alone Time
When with a twin flame, the interest in solitude and spiritual endeavors will drive us inward. The desire to be social or have meaningless conversations will quickly fade.
No Free Will
Most people think you have free will and we can make our own choices. If free will existed, then the twin flame relationship would go according to how we wanted, not how it normally progresses.
Losing Friends
Our focus will revolve around the twin flame which means we will have less in common with those we once hung out with, but who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. WE might have a couple friends who hang around, but they will not likely understand it.
Doing the Unexpected
Finally, because the magnetic pull of the twin flame is so unexpectedly strong, we will do almost anything to have them close. We may change jobs, move thousands of miles. or anything else to be physically closer.
These disadvantages force us from our comfort zones and stretch us beyond what we could have ever imagined, but if we do the work, it will all be worth it.
Honestly, this post is just a bunch of fluff. It makes twin flames sound like some kind of magical fairytale. In reality, relationships are much messier and complex. This oversimplification is misleading and unhelpful.
‘No Free Will’? Well then! Guess I’ll just sit back and let fate decide my love life while juggling flaming swords! Sounds like a blast… or not. This whole thing feels too much like destiny’s twisted game.
‘Terrible Lows’? Really? This sounds more like a cautionary tale than an encouragement for people looking for deep connections. Why would anyone willingly go through emotional turmoil when there are healthier options available?
‘Healthy options?’ That’s rich! As if any relationship is entirely healthy! We all have baggage; it’s just that some come with more dramatic flair than others!
I found this article to be incredibly enlightening! The way it described the complexities of twin flame relationships opened my eyes to aspects I had never considered before. It’s refreshing to see such honesty about the challenges involved.
While I appreciate the author’s insights, I disagree with several points made here. Claiming that there’s no free will in these relationships undermines personal agency. People can choose how they react and engage, regardless of their feelings.
‘Oh great! A relationship where I can lose all my friends and feel like I’m going crazy! Sign me up!’ Seriously though, who would want this kind of drama? Not exactly my idea of a fulfilling relationship!
So basically, if you get a twin flame, you sign up for emotional roller coasters and losing friends? Sounds like an advertisement for a new theme park—’Twin Flame World: Where your heart goes on thrilling highs and lows!’
This piece provides a well-rounded perspective on twin flames, balancing the allure with the often overlooked drawbacks. It’s important for anyone considering such connections to fully understand what they entail—it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.